In the passage written by Jefferey Kluger " I Know the
Truth, So Don't Bother Me With Facts", he writes about people believing in
false beliefs and what it takes to get people to change their mind about them.
Based on studies by professors from Ohio State University, they recorded that
750 people believed at least one rumor about the Islamic cultural center. Then
decided on which true fact to expose in order change the opinion of the people.
Further studies are being conducted on the brain to look deeper into why most
people don't change their opinions even when presented with real facts.
"Even when people do take time to learn the facts, the
effort does no good". I took this statement from the passage because I
believe that it has a lot to do with ego and experience. It takes a lot for a
person to change what they thought and believed in after proving them wrong
with true facts. Just like my grandparents, most people are very stubborn with
what they believe in, and in order to change things true facts need to be
presented
As a girl, growing up with plenty of aunts, uncles, and
cousins there was always something or someone being talked about. Whether it
was a crazy rumor about who was dating or a twisted story about how someone in
the newspaper died. I also had my grandparents who always spoke of stories and
lessons that were quite outdated. They were such strong believers in what they
preached. If you told them different to change what they thought, they would be
more stubborn than an ox. Here’s a good example of when my uncle met his wife.
It was like any other day, I was in my grandparent’s house after a long day of
school. My uncle came home from work with a big smile on his face. Something
was obviously up with him, so I asked him why he had such a big smile on. He
had told me that his new relationship was going very well and my aunt said yes
to be his girlfriend. He had told the family about his news after everyone came
home. We were all happy for my uncle. Until my aunt Maribel asked what
nationality she was. My uncle took a minute to respond, and finally said she
was Puerto Rican. That’s when all the idiotic rumors about Puerto Rican Women
started; how they were gold diggers, how they couldn’t cook as well as
Dominican women, etc. My grandmother went on for about an hour saying that it
wasn’t going to last and how she would rob him blind. Since I was young I told
my uncle not to worry about what they said and how I couldn’t wait to meet her.
He took my advice and they have been married for 7 years now and have a
2-year-old son. But still to this day my aunt and some others in the family say
those things.
I think some of my family’s thoughts and view on things will
never change. I also think it has a lot to do with age and their experiences
they’ve gone through. Hearing all these stories and gossip as a kid sounded so
real to me just because it was my family, why would they lie. As I got older, I
realized what instigation and adding a little white lie was. People added their
two senses to the story just to make it sound more interesting, whether it was
true or not. That is what everything comes down to; a whole bunch of misheard
stories, instigation, and flat out lies.
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